Wednesday, March 10, 2010
It is important to acknowledge the feelings that you have, it is the energy that you are radiating to the universe whether you acknowledge that or not.  Going into the spring is a perfect time to pay attention to what is coming up for you and find ways to cope with those things we cannot control.  Many of us are coming out of the dark half of this past year with scars and bruises.

Feelings of abandonment are natural.  Whether we are feeling this around physical loss of someone, loss of energy, friends, connections, jobs, housing or even illness; loss is layered with feeling abandoned.  It is not uncommon to even feel abandoned by the Gods at times.  Again, this is normal.  

It can be instinctual to retreat when feeling these feelings, even to hide from some of the growth that we know is inevitable.  If you are anything like me, I get these moments of fear around change and growth.  Change is unpredictable and growth means so many things to so many people but resisting change could create friction that only adds to the intensity of it.

Sometimes we have to accept that change is constant and most other things are not.  Friendships may come and go, people transition, new opportunities come, obstacles appear and only some connections last forever.  As heart wrenching as this can be it is what makes us human.  Our challenge is not dealing with the feelings of abandonment we feel but pushing past them to find a better opportunity or change for growth.  

As I am trying to do in my life, I encourage you to push past the fear you may be feeling as we go into the balance of the equinox and use that to sustain your spirit.  Without this hope can easily die and that is the greatest type of abandonment of all.




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